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Sex on Autopilot-Please stop

Change the pattern and you can change the experience. You can learn what it is that you really want/need/crave. That is not to say that you don’t need/want/crave sex, but that is just a means to an end most often. If you are currently not happy in your life/relationship, you have nothing to lose to just try it.

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Masculinity

I, for one, welcome masculinity. Traditional gender roles are not toxic or negative. Toxicity is not gender specific.

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Lunar Eclipse Ritual

For this Full Lunar Eclipse on November 8, 2022, I had a lot of interest in the session that I am offering, but not everyone can afford the high fee associated with it, so I wanted to give you some guidelines, information, and ideas to create a session that you can do on your own.

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Can Love Be Ephemeral?

Romantic love is a temporary, but beautiful thing that I think people often ruin their lives chasing. (right, Aries?) I do think that if we experience that romantic love for a minute, we should enjoy it and stay in the moment. At the same time, ask yourself if you can do the work to make it permanent.

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Is sex superficial?

Sex is a powerful force and can stimulate powerful sensations in the body. Sometimes that is the only time people feel anything in a society where we are all essentially numb with medication, alcohol, sugar (drugs), cortisol (stress), and more than anything, fear.

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How I Do a Sexual Cleanse

When we have sex, whether it’s during a one-night, stand or within the context of a long term relationship, we are uniting all parts of ourselves. Our mind, body, spirit and soul.

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I Am A Woman That Has Hurt Men

My message to men: Sometimes you will do everything right and they will still leave or they still may not be able to reciprocate or not willing to reciprocate.

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How my Special Forces Clients use Tantra

I know that many of my special forces clients didn’t come to me thinking they were going to see a huge difference in their lives, they were looking for a way to decompress, relax, and close the world out for a minute.

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Penis Disconnect

If you have a “feeling” or a “sense” that you and your penis aren’t communicating, you are not alone.

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