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Solo Tantric Practices

Tantra is typically associated with relationships and sex here in the West. Yet, tantra is much more than that. It is a spiritual and mystical practice that starts with the Self. That’s why you don’t need a partner to practice tantra, it’s about your relationship with yourself. In this article, I will discuss how  tantra can work in a relationship of one.

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Practice Tantric Sex with Masturbation

When I first started practicing Tantra, I didn’t know the word Tantra, I didn’t know there was a name, I didn’t label it, I simply tuned in to my body and recognized where and how I felt pleasure and then I explored that. Back then, it very often was through masturbation.

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So, Why Is Bondage so Sexy?

Like any other kink or sex act, people’s reasons for liking it aren’t always the same.  We’re all unique and the ways we engage with bondage vary.

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Is There A Downside To Tantra?

I talk constantly about the amazing benefits of Tantra. The ability to control your sexual energy, last longer in bed, experience full-body orgasms, connect with your partner for mind-altering sex and feeling connected day to day in the mundane aspects of your life.

But is there a downside?

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‘Til Death - Part III - Walking Away

Talk to your partner and ask them how they want the next 10, 20, 30 years to look. Do these look the same? If so, then it is a matter of finding out if the current path has you arriving in the place you want to be.

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Can Tantric Massage Heal Trauma?

You must actually experience safety in the body and through the senses. Your body state influences by consciousness. By tapping into the body and being fully present with the sensations your mind becomes more centered and more relaxed. This allows your body to come out of survival mode and discharge trauma.

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‘Til Death - Part II - A Commitment Agreement

Define how each partner will take responsibility for their own health, happiness, career, emotional growth and personal development. Don’t blame me for your lack of anything in your life, and don’t be the person that holds me back. Speak up for yourself and take responsibility for your own life.

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Let’s Talk About Nerds

Nerds don’t have game. If you are reading this and you are thinking “My nerd has game”, wrong. Being a nerd IS your person’s game. Your nerd is not a nerd. And also, your nerd is probably a female.

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3 Things Amazing Sex Partners NEVER do

Amazing sexual partners NEVER tell you that they are amazing- They simply do not talk about being amazing. It is not that they don’t know it, they do know it.

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Mythical Pleasure

If you are interested in awakening your sexual power, experiencing deeper connection and opening yourself up to divinity, then follow me to learn more about this sacred journey where we not only acknowledge your desires, but we explore them.

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Why Do I Stay? -Releasing Hate & Anger

If you are interested in awakening your sexual power, experiencing deeper connection and opening yourself up to divinity, then follow me to learn more about this sacred journey where we not only acknowledge your desires, but we explore them.

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Why Do I Stay?

If you are interested in awakening your sexual power, experiencing deeper connection and opening yourself up to divinity, then follow me to learn more about this sacred journey where we not only acknowledge your desires, but we explore them.

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5 Tips for Better Sex

If you are interested in awakening your sexual power, experiencing deeper connection and opening yourself up to divinity, then follow me to learn more about this sacred journey where we not only acknowledge your desires, but we explore them.

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