Penis Disconnect

If you have a “feeling” or a “sense” that you and your penis aren’t communicating, you are not alone.  

Last night I had a client that was nervous and shy and really lacked confidence, which confused me a little bit when I saw his body. By the end of the session he had really opened up and he told me that he feels as if he and his cock are not on the same page at all. He feels totally disconnected from it, like it just has a mind of its own.  Does this sound familiar?

If you have been living with this disconnect for your whole life, you may not even realize that it can be different. Imagine if your penis was your best friend. He should be like your soul mate, he should have your back, this thing should be your wingman. Why is he constantly sabotaging your efforts? Because you don’t know him and you view him as a separate entity.

You are probably only interested in it for the 2 minutes that you watch porn, which is likely 2x per day. You masturbate and move on.  Do you know him at all?  What does he love? When is the last time you spent any real time exploring your own cock?

Stay with me here. I promise you that you can change your relationship with your own body and truly create a connection that will be a game changer for your sex life. 

Try these steps for the next 21 days and then let me know how that goes for you.

1.        Masturbate without porn at least 50% of the time.

2.       At least double your usually time spent masturbating in the first week, then increase that in week 2 and week 3.  For example, if you spend 2 minutes typically.. just long enough to get off and then you are done, try 4 minutes the first week, maybe 6 minutes the second week and 8 minutes in week 3.  Or more.

3.       Spend the first half of this time touching anything except your penis. Touch your thighs, your balls, your belly, your ass, your nipples, literally anything on your own body EXCEPT your penis. I know this may feel weird at first, but if you want something different you have to do something different and nobody else can see you.

4.       After you finish, put both of your hands onto your own body someplace to let that energy ground back into yourself, and then thank your penis. Seriously.     

If you email me after you have tried this, I will send you the next steps.  Ladies, I have one coming for you as well. square